TIPS FOR MAINTAINING EFFECTIVE CONTROL BY PARENTS

1. Think about your limits before setting them.
   
2. Be clear about the limits with your children, so that boundaries do not become an issue.
   
3. Explain your reasoning behind the limits whenever possible.
   
4. Be clear about the consequences when children violate the limit.
   
5. Make sure that these consequences are equal for each of your children.
   
6. Involve your children, in defining and defending limits within the household.
   
7. Make sure all parental figures and care givers are aware of the boundaries in your family.
   
8. Demonstrate respect for boundaries and limits in your own life. YOU ARE THE MODEL.